The Erotic Rewrite
Your relationship is real. Your love is real. But your sex life? Predictable AF.
Let’s rewrite the whole damn thing—together.
Private Coaching for Couples Who Want to Fck Like the Movies
A little message from yours truly…
You never thought you’d be that couple.
The ones avoiding each other, sitting on opposite ends of the couch and calling it "quality time."
The ones having sex like it's a checklist: touch here, squeeze there, a lick if you’re lucky— one-two-three, done.
Same moves. Same timing. Same silence about what you actually want.
You’re not broken.
You’re just stuck in a script that no longer reflects who you are, what you want, or how you want to feel.
This isn’t therapy, this is a rewrite.
The Erotic Rewrite is a private, 1:2 coaching experience for couples who still love each other—but are ready to stop pretending that “fine” is enough.
This is where we rip up the old script, throw out the tired checklist, and write something that actually turns you both on.
We get clear. We get real. We build something hot, honest, and sustainable.
What we’ll do together:
Pinpoint what you each actually want using my Erotic Pathway Playbook
Ditch the performative sex you’ve been having and figure out what real turn-on looks like for both of you
Feel safe and turned on enough to ask for it
Create rituals, scripts, and erotic practices that make intimacy feel exciting—not obligatory
Finally have the conversations you’re both been avoiding—without it turning into a fight
This is deep work. But it’s not heavy. It’s permission-giving. Clarifying. Grounding. And, honestly, fun AF.
What’s included:
Private intake + solo calls with each partner
Three 90-minute coaching sessions (Zoom)
A holistic approach that integrates mind, body and fantasy.
The Erotic Rewrite Playbook (yes/no/maybe tool)
Support in creating your very own sex scene customized for you.
Light messaging support between sessions for clarity or check-ins
Why Me? Why This?
This isn’t my first scene.
I’ve worked behind the camera for 20 years—producing, managing, and now choreographing sex scenes on major film and TV sets as a certified intimacy coordinator.
I know what it takes to create chemistry—on screen and in real life.
I know how to navigate emotional nuance, awkward moments, high-stakes pressure, and people with wildly different needs.
And I bring all of that into The Erotic Rewrite.
I don’t just teach intimacy—I produce it.
With intention. With emotional intelligence. And with a grounded, sexologist lens that’s designed for real couples—not just actors playing a part.
What You Can Expect:
A sex life that actually feels like yours—not someone else’s fantasy
Tools for navigating mismatched desire without blame or shutdown
Clarity around your unique turn-ons (and how to ask for them)
Deeper, more playful intimacy
Confidence, connection, and chemistry that doesn't fade—it evolves
About me
It Who am I and why do I give AF?
I’m Arielle Zadok—Certified Intimacy Coordinator, Sexologist, and Pleasure Producer.
I’ve worked behind the scenes on film and TV sets for 20 years, helping actors safely choreograph sex scenes that are both emotionally honest and unforgettable.
But off-set? I’m the go-to for real couples who want the same thing: sex that feels alive, expansive, embodied—and actually enjoyable.
I combine my background in production, trauma-informed coaching, somatic practice, and sex education to help couples stop settling and start showing up like they actually want to be there.
This work is real. It’s raw. And it’s designed for people who are ready to feel good again—in their bodies, their relationships, and their beds.
This experience is by application only. I work with a small number of couples at a time so I can give you my full energy and support.
Step 1: Fill out a short application
Step 2: Book a no-pressure Clarity Call
Step 3: If it’s a fit, we’ll get your Erotic Rewrite on the calendar
Ready to rewrite your sex life?
Frequently Asked Questions
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