The Pleasure Producer™
Creator of Fck Like The Movies, intimacy coordinator, and cultural voice redefining sex, intimacy, and relationship work — one couple, one scene, one masterpiece at a time.
Most Relationship Advice Doesn’t Work
That’s because “spicing things up” isn’t the answer.
Most couples are told to reconnect by adding a new toy, trying a new position, or “scheduling intimacy” like it’s a dentist appointment.But those are surface-level band-aids. They don’t build trust. They don’t shift dynamics. And they don’t create the kind of intimacy that lasts.
Real connection — the kind that feels hot and safe, playful and grounded — doesn’t come from a trick.
It comes from co-creating:
a new language, a shared rhythm,
a felt sense of safety in your body and your relationship.That’s what I teach.
That’s what changes everything.
This Is Where Intimacy Becomes Art
Hi, I’m Arielle
I’m a certified intimacy coordinator, holistic sexologist, and the creator of Fck Like The Movies™.
I’ve spent the last two decades bringing stories to life through film, television, and commercial production — helping creatives co-create under pressure, solve for problems before they start, and hold powerful visions through every emotional beat.
But something clicked when I moved into intimacy coordination:
what if we brought the same level of intentionality we use in co-creating intimacy on screen into intimacy in real life?
That idea lit a fire.
I began blending my background in production with my training in holistic health coaching, trauma-informed somatics, nervous system regulation, belief work, and sex education— building a new kind of framework for intimacy.
One that doesn’t rely on tips or tricks.
One that doesn’t leave the labor of pleasure on one partner.
I created Fck Like The Movies™ for couples who aren’t broken — they’re just ready for more.
More honesty. More erotic intelligence.
More connection that feels creative, embodied, and real.
Whether I’m supporting a scene on set or guiding couples behind closed doors, I bring the same approach: structure, clarity, collaboration — and the tools to keep evolving.
Because pleasure isn’t luck.
It’s created — with clarity, co-creation, and a little direction.
You don’t need a problem to go deeper.
You just need the desire — and a partner who’s willing to meet you there.
Let’s co-create something beautiful
Here’s how we can work together — whether you're here for deeper intimacy, creative collaboration, or something bold and beautiful in between.
For Couples & Individuals
Fck Like The Movies™
A co-created intimacy framework for couples who want more.
But you know there’s more: more depth, more turn-on, more us.
This program gives you the tools, language, and structure to create a relationship that’s erotic, emotionally safe, and built to last.
It’s not tips and tricks. It’s direction. Collaboration. Nervous system grounding.
And it’s yours — over and over again.
Birds & Bees Don’t Fck
Our sex ed failed us. Let’s laugh about it.
Sex ed — but make it funny, raw, and actually useful.
Birds & Bees Don’t Fck brings comedians and sexperts together for the kind of conversations we should’ve been having all along.
Big laughs, real talk, and zero shame.
This is your permission slip to get curious again.
Listen wherever you get your podcasts.
The Sexy Directory™
Curated reviews, recs, and resources for the erotically curious.
The Sexy Directory is your insider guide to what’s actually worth it — from pleasure products and date night ideas to sexpert spotlights and unfiltered reviews.
It’s cultural. It’s useful. It’s sexy in a grown-up way.
Subscribers to the paid tier also get access to Office Hours — live, drop-in sessions where we talk sex, intimacy, creative direction, and everything in between.
For Productions, Brands & Sexuality Professionals
Intimacy Coordination
Where consent, story, and performance meet.
With two decades in production and advanced training in sexology, I help bring intimate scenes to life with clarity, care, and creative integrity.
From network television to indie films, I partner with directors, actors, and producers to create grounded, trauma-informed spaces where performance and safety can thrive — without compromising the story.
Hosting & Partnerships
Bring sex-positive intelligence to your stage, stream, or brand.
From on-camera hosting and live panels to branded content, VO, and teleprompter work — I blend warmth, clarity, and cultural fluency with a sharp lens on intimacy, pleasure, and human connection.
Whether you’re building a campaign, curating a conversation, or amplifying a brand message, I’m here to make it resonate.
Consulting Services
Creative strategy and operations support for pleasure-centered work.
I consult with brands, coaches, and sexuality professionals on the back-end of bringing intimacy-forward work to life — from content development and language to systems, production, and client experience.
If your work lives in the realm of sex, pleasure, or embodiment, I’ll help you build the backend to match the brilliance.
Let’s Talk About Birds & Bees (And Why They Don’t Fck)
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but birds & bees? They don’t fck!
If you’re looking for a fresh take on sex, intimacy, and how sex education of the past failed us, my show Birds & Bees Don’t Fck is where it’s at. Each episode dives into the gaps left by outdated sex education, with candid, entertaining, and sometimes downright hilarious discussions that make the complex simple—and the taboo approachable.
From unlearning what we thought we knew to exploring how to do better, Birds & Bees Don’t Fck offers a space for real talk about the kind of intimacy and pleasure that’s actually possible. Whether I’m chatting with experts, sharing stories with comedians, or casually sneaking in tidbits of sex education, the goal is always the same: to make you feel informed, empowered, and entertained.
Catch an episode and let’s unlearn together.
What People Say After Working With Me
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"Speaking with Arielle is like connecting with your wisest, truest friend—the kind who knows just what to ask and exactly how to hold space. I came in not knowing what I needed, and left with clarity, confidence, and a deeper connection to myself. She made it feel easy to be vulnerable, and somehow turned a simple conversation into a portal for healing. Her presence is calm, intuitive, and real—and the transformation felt both profound and grounded."
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"Arielle understands coaching on a soul level. She doesn’t just listen—she gets it. She spots the work that needs to be done, guides you through it with care, and helps you forge entirely new paths forward. I was feeling stuck in my own story, cycling through patterns I didn’t know how to name—until she helped me break them open. With her support, I transformed that hazy, disconnected feeling into clear, aligned action—and I actually stayed accountable to it."
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"This work didn’t just shift my mindset—it shifted how I move through life. I didn’t expect a single session to unlock so much, but Arielle guided me into a space where my truth could finally be heard. She helped me slow down, catch the beliefs that were quietly sabotaging me, and start living with more intention and intimacy. She’s the kind of coach who brings clarity without pressure, and holds space in a way that makes you feel deeply safe and seen."
It’s okay to want to Fck Like The Movies
And it’s possible — when you stop relying on chemistry and assumptions start co-creating intimacy that evolves with you.
This isn’t about fixing what’s broken.
It’s about rewriting what’s possible.
With structure. With safety. With turn-on you both can feel in your bones.
Fck Like The Movies™ is the framework for couples who are already in love — and ready for more.
More clarity.
More collaboration.
More real-life intimacy that feels better than fiction.
If you want pleasure that lasts — the kind that evolves with you — it doesn’t happen by accident.