
The Pleasure Producer
Crafting intimacy that honors your vision, ignites your pleasure, and turns every moment into a masterpiece.
When you feel safe, you can be expansive.
I’m Arielle Zadok , Certified Intimacy Coordinator, Holistic Sexologist, and The Pleasure Producer, guiding people and productions through sex, storytelling, and everything in between.
With two decades of experience in film, television, and advertising, I’ve led high-stakes productions, supported award-winning creative teams, and played a pivotal role in helping Disney Television safely return to production during the COVID-19 pandemic—designing protocols that balanced people, production, and creative integrity in an unprecedented moment.
I’ve worked on national campaigns and branded content for ESPN, Air Jordan, Nickelodeon, and more—collaborating with major networks, creative agencies, and A-list talent to bring bold ideas to life. From intimate sets to large-scale productions, I know how to navigate sensitive material, tight timelines, and high-pressure environments with clarity, discretion, and care.
Now, I bring that same producer’s mindset and emotional fluency to every layer of intimacy—on set, in relationships, and within the spaces we create for ourselves.
Whether I’m supporting a production, helping individuals and couples create their own Movie Magic Moments, or speaking into a mic, my work is rooted in blending safety, embodiment, and creative exploration.
Because safety isn’t about saying “no”—it’s what makes space for the full expression of our “yes.”
Explore My Work
Intimacy Coordinating
Production support for bold, safe, collaborative storytelling.
By creating an environment where the director’s vision is honored without compromising the safety, consent, or dignity of performers, we’re able to craft powerful scenes—whether comedic, emotional, or intimate—that take audiences’ breath away.
The Sexy Directory
Your curated guide to better sex and deeper intimacy.
Find trusted reviews of toys worth trying, date spots that turn up the heat, and sexpert profiles you won’t find anywhere else.
Members unlock monthly video advice with coaching level care.
Sex Coaching Offers
Your sex life. Rewritten like a scene worth staying for.
From quick-hit coaching to luxury VIP experiences, every offer is rooted in my Movie Magic Moments framework—designed to help you rewrite your intimacy story with clarity, confidence, and serious turn-on.
Looking for a producer or consultant for your sex-positive film, commercial, event, retreat or play party?
I bring 20 years of production experience across film, advertising, podcasts, and live events—with specialized expertise in kink, BDSM, non-monogamy, sex work, strip clubs, sex with disabilities, and sex with aging. I’m also a trained pole dance instructor, skilled at making new performers look fantastic on screen.
In addition to intimacy coordination and creative consulting, I’m a voiceover artist available for sexual wellness brands and sex-positive fiction and nonfiction.
I am represented by United Talent Agency.

Let’s Talk About Birds & Bees (And Why They Don’t Fck)
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but birds & bees? They don’t fck!
If you’re looking for a fresh take on sex, intimacy, and how sex education of the past failed us, my show Birds & Bees Don’t Fck is where it’s at. Each episode dives into the gaps left by outdated sex education, with candid, entertaining, and sometimes downright hilarious discussions that make the complex simple—and the taboo approachable.
From unlearning what we thought we knew to exploring how to do better, Birds & Bees Don’t Fck offers a space for real talk about the kind of intimacy and pleasure that’s actually possible. Whether I’m chatting with experts, sharing stories with comedians, or casually sneaking in tidbits of sex education, the goal is always the same: to make you feel informed, empowered, and entertained.
Catch an episode and let’s unlearn together.

As Featured In
Sharing my expertise on sex, intimacy, connection, and storytelling across platforms.
Featured Articles
The Guardian
PopSugar
Kinkly
Podcast Appearances
Our Relationship W/ Emmy & Ify
Sex In Space
Sweet Release w/Barbie Jean
Event Highlights
Panelist: “The Sex You Want” Book Launch by Rena Martine at Ribbed Boddice Bookstore
Photos Courtesy of Joseph Nicholas Duarte and Rena Martine
Want to Collaborate?
I’d love to share my insights on intimacy coordinating, sex education and cultivating the kind of sex and relationship that people write songs about with your audience.
If you’re looking for a podcast guest, article contributor, panelist, or moderator for your event, let’s connect!
The Sexy Directory
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And if you’re ready to go deeper, become a member for $10/month and unlock Office Hours—a private video advice column where I answer your real questions with coaching-level care.